Women with some disabilities sometimes risk their health or even their life to have a baby. What issues does the story below raise for you about disability, sexuality, risk and parenthood? Will this child be disadvantaged or lucky to have such a determined mother?
Dankinja Melek was born with no legs and one arm. Though the doctors told her that pregnancy could be dangerous for her, Melek will soon give birth to a child.
The doctors have told me that they are worried about me but I was not nervous, and I believe that it will be all right. I’m eight months pregnant and everything is fine – says Melek who is about to give birth to a boy. The boy currently weighs three pounds, and Melek and her husband have decided to name him Semih Akin.
Melek says she got pregnant naturally. She added that at first she could not believe she was pregnant, and she made five or six tests to be sure. She admitted that the last two months have been very difficult. During pregnancy I obviously gained a few pounds and therefore generally lie down – Melek said. She is helped a lot to her husband Mehmet who is originally from Turkey. They met a few years ago. At first they were friends, and then they fell in love. They were married six years ago.
Originally prepared by: Bojana Minic
Translated and edited by: Matthew Griffiths